Things to believe

Last night I was hanging with friends in a local alfresco restaurant admiring the moon, the few stars we can see in the San Juan metro sky and the sea. Although sea humidity wasn't working with my hair, conversation got carried away into relationship talk. Being single for a couple of years now I have learned what I want in a relationship (not because of lack of virtues; but lack of candidates). Compared to my early twenties, in which I was looking for a bad-ass party animal, now I strive to cultivate two things: the slow art of seduction and hot monogamy. The whole slow art of seduction thing was J's advice on how to approach a former love ( Thank God that didn't work, guy was dumb and couldn't engage in conversation, a key element in the whole deal). Even though that didn't work I realized that this "old school" advice had some meaning and more important, a lot of truth. Trying to know if the guy was worth it, first hand, in order to decide to invest time was a thing of the past for me. I found a new vice and it was called seduction. Think of it as a 7 course meal, first dishes prepare the palate to the main dish. At the end, you end up with a sweet note (i.e. dessert).

Which come the second part of my relationship belief system: hot monogamy. Who is their right mind decided that monogamy is dull and boring? nothing gets more hot than holding a secret and who better than your life partner. Hot monogamy is something both parties have to work and feel responsible about.Reinventing yourself over and over to keep things hot in intimacy is what gets it going.

To stop with the sugar coating: I want to feel full time rapture with my partner. I want to feel giddy than something is going to happen later on. I know that I want to spend my life with the best lover I have encountered in my life.Hopefully my life partner will feel the same...